Save vs. Splurge
Baby Gear Edition: Let’s be real. You remember building your wedding registry- you could always find a reason to splurge in every single category. The same goes for baby gear and products, but as a first-time mom, it can be hard to know when the splurge is actually worth it. We want you to spend your baby budget wisely, so we’ve asked our team of experienced Real Moms what they’d recommend splurging on and when they’d say, “Thank you, next”!
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June 5, 2025
Hi Cheryl, My husband’s brother called and mentioned that his son is getting married in a very small ceremony, and we will not be invited. However, another wedding will take place in the future, and we will be invited to that one. Should we send a monetary gift now or wait until they have their […]
– By a Mom Who’s Been There – Registry Essentials That Stand the Test of Time
June 3, 2025
When I was pregnant with my first baby, I approached the baby registry like I was preparing for a new job (because, let’s be honest, I was). Should I pick the cutest gear or the most high-tech options? What would actually get used, and for how long? I read all the lists, compared reviews, and […]
Unique Gift Ideas for the Grad
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It starts with a cap that’s slightly too big and ends with a walk across a stage and a sigh of relief. Whether it’s kindergarten or a PhD, every graduation deserves to be celebrated—and every graduate deserves a gift that says, “You did it!” (Preferably something more memorable than a last-minute card and gas station […]
Our Favorite Organization Solutions for a Small Dorm Room
May 28, 2025
When you’re dealing with limited living space in your dorm, it’s all about maximizing every single spot. Keeping things neat and clean can make a real difference in terms of the square footage available to you at any given time. Whether you’re spitting your dorm with roommates or have the (small) space to yourself, coming […]
– Ask a Real Bride – How Involved Should I be in My Bridal Shower?
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Your wedding can feel like a crash course in event planning: suddenly, your to-do list is filled with finding vendors, building your budget, and creating your guest list. With endless event inspiration and ideas flooding social media feeds, many brides are left wondering where the planning responsibilities actually end. I’ve got some good news for […]
– Still Cute, Less Beige – Escaping the Sad Beige Mom Vibe
May 22, 2025
Let’s be honest—babies come with a lot of stuff. From high chairs and bouncers to endless diapers and toys, your once-curated space can start feeling more like a daycare than a designer home. Additionally, clutter can make you feel overwhelmed and give your home a messy appearance. But here’s the good news: having a baby […]
– Ask Cheryl – Invited to the Shower, but not the Wedding?
May 20, 2025
It is a truth universally acknowledged (or at least it should be) that all those invited to the bridal shower must also be asked to the wedding. Unfortunately, confused hosts/hostesses sometimes extend shower invitations to those they can’t invite to the wedding. So what’s a shower guest to do when she’s not on the wedding […]
What to Wear to a Summer Wedding
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There are few things I love more than sweet summertime! Depending on your location, summer can mean hiking through gorgeous national parks, spending days on the lake surrounded by majestic mountains, sunbathing by the ocean, or dining with loved ones along the Northeast coast. However, if your social calendar is anything like mine, your weekends […]
– Father’s Day Gifts We Love – Thoughtful Ideas for Every Kind of Dad
May 13, 2025
When it comes to celebrating Dad, one size definitely doesn’t fit all. Some dads are great at fixing things, others are always ready for a game of tag—and some somehow manage to do it all. This Father’s Day, skip the generic gift card and give him something that feels personal, thoughtful, and just right for […]
– Safer Swaps – Mom-Approved Alternatives to Recalled Baby Products
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I remember the exact moment I got the email: “Product Recall Notice – 4Moms- Mamaroo Swing.” My stomach dropped. That swing had been a lifesaver during those fussy newborn evenings. If you’ve ever experienced that gut-wrenching feeling of learning a trusted baby product has been recalled, you’re not alone. As moms, we make the best […]
– Ask a Real TWIN Mom – Baby Registry Essentials for Two
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It’s pretty hard to surprise me. So when my best friend FaceTimed me last Spring to show me the ultrasound of her first baby, I was floored when she also revealed the baby’s sibling growing inside her! That’s right: she was having TWINS! And with that announcement began six months of planning and research and […]
How Much Should You Spend on a Wedding Gift?
May 6, 2025
The most often asked question in my “Ask Cheryl” inbox is how much to spend on a wedding or shower gift. And while we all love a hard and fast etiquette rule, this is one of those questions that doesn’t have a one-size-fits-all answer. Read on for my advice and spending guidelines to help you […]
Last Minute Mother’s Day Gifts for Any Type of Mom
May 1, 2025
Mother’s Day is almost here, but don’t worry — you can still find a thoughtful, memorable gift without the last-minute stress. Thanks to Amazon Prime’s speedy next-day delivery, you won’t have to settle for anything short of just right. We’ve rounded up the perfect gift bundles for every kind of mom — whether she’s always […]
– Ask a Real Bride – Can I Register for Whatever I Want?
April 24, 2025
Fishing poles, office supplies, board games, a $700 massage chair: what do these items have in common? I’ve seen them all included on wedding registries of friends and family within the last few months! Why are these non-traditional items popping up on wedding registries? I can think of two reasons: But with Amazon, Target, and […]
– Ask a Real Mom – What's on Your Third Trimester Checklist?
April 22, 2025
Ah, the third trimester is finally here! You’re probably feeling a mix of excitement, exhaustion, and maybe even a bit of panic. Your belly’s stretched to its limits, sleep feels like a distant memory, and the countdown to meeting your little one has officially begun. So, what should you be focusing on during these final […]
– Ask Cheryl – Etiquette of Having a Bridal Shower with a Small Destination Wedding Guest List
April 17, 2025
When a couple chooses a small, destination wedding, family and friends might try to insist on traditional pre-wedding celebrations, like a bridal shower. How should couples handle the pressure to register and have showers when their wedding guest list is small? Cheryl offers her solution and the one etiquette rule that should never change with […]
