Even if you feel that you and your fiance “have everything,” we always recommend registering for actual gifts (not just setting up a honeymoon fund, though we love those, too!). But where to begin? How many gifts are too many gifts? And how can you predict what your guests are likely to spend? Let’s dive into the numbers!
How many gifts should you add to your wedding registry?
The traditional equation involves multiplying the number of invitations you’re sending by 2.5. So if you’re mailing 70 invitations (for around 140 guests), you’d register for a total of 175 gifts.
Why 2.5 gifts per invitation? Some guests will be invited to a bridal shower in the lead up to the wedding, and some guests will combine items to give a gift that perfectly suits their budget (more on that later).
It sounds like a lot, but remember: that’s a grand total of each individual piece a person could purchase separately. So even though no one is going to buy you a single wine glass, in this equation, the wine glasses would count as 12 separate gifts.
If that number feels impossibly huge, don’t dwell on it. Start with this checklist instead, that covers every registry category you could imagine. Once you start adding items to your registry, I think you’ll be surprised at how quickly you’ll hit that target number!
The ideal price breakdown:
Your wedding guests could spend anywhere from $30-$100 on a shower gift, and $50-$200 plus on a wedding gift, depending on their budgets. Some guests may choose 1 gift that fits their budget, or select 2-3 to hit their targeted amount. To help every guest put together a gift that works for them, I suggest the following:
- Around 50% of your gifts should be priced around $50-$200: these items will cover the most popular price points that guests are likely to spend.
- Roughly 25% of gifts can be below $50: these items are perfect for shower gifts and guests who’d like to “build” their own gift set.
- The other 25% of gifts can be above the $200 mark: These “splurges” are perfect for guests who can afford to spend more, or for guests who’d like to pitch in on a group gift.
- Over $500: Limit to 2 or 3 gifts at this price point. If they’re purchased quickly, you can always add a few more!
Keep Checking In…
Remember: you can monitor and edit your registry in the months leading up to your wedding. After your bridal shower, check to make sure there are still lots of items left in each price point so your wedding guests have plenty of choices. Your goal isn’t to “empty” the registry, but to provide options. And in the end, many retailers offer a completion discount to help you purchase whatever is left!
And if you’re still not convinced an extensive registry is for you:
Consider the following points:
- Some guests will always buy an actual gift, no matter what. Maybe they’re traditional, or maybe they just prefer the symbolism of a physical item. If they’re on a smaller budget, giving you an item may feel better than giving that same amount in cash. Whatever their reason, you’re going to end up with gifts. Selecting items at various price points can be a strategic move for you, and your guests will definitely appreciate it!
- Take the opportunity to upgrade items you already have: Even if you “have everything,” now is your chance to upgrade sheets, towels, cookware, dishes, and more.
- Think about your future: even if you don’t host much now, your life is about to change. Now is the time to think ahead and stock your cabinets with everything you’ll need to host future holidays and parties (think glassware, china, cake stands, platters, and more)
- Have fun with it! You can register for almost anything these days, so select unique items that speak to your hobbies and interests!
Ready to Register?
Now that you have an idea of “how much” and “how many,” it’s time to start the process! Once you’re done, don’t forget to let your guests know they can check RegistryFinder.com for all their gifting and etiquette needs!
