Traveling with kids can definitely be a challenge. Add TSA lines, gate checks, and the experience of being stuck in a small space 30,000 feet in the air for hours, and it’s easy to see why it can feel overwhelming. When I asked other moms for advice, many joked, “Don’t do it!” But flying with kids is often necessary for those of us with loved ones far away. With some preparation (and helpful tips from this post), traveling with kids can transform from a challenge into a fun and memorable adventure with your little ones. I’ve broken down the essentials into three main categories and included product recommendations that have made our family trips much smoother (and much more fun!).

Efficient Travel Gear

If you’ve ever traveled with kids, you know how many bulky items they bring. Knowing what to pack and when and where to check everything can make a trip smoother.

Travel Crib and Toddler Bed

First, you’ll need a reliable travel crib if your destination doesn’t provide one. While many good hotels will offer one if you ask, you can’t always be sure of the quality. The Graco Playard and this inflatable toddler bed are two great options. Both are perfect for checking in with your other larger luggage to make your trip a little easier.

Car Seat and Stroller

You should also check the car seat with your luggage. The last thing anyone wants is to haul a car seat through TSA and across the airport, especially when your gate is all the way at the other end! Some great options include the Graco Extend2Fit Convertible Baby Car Seat, which is both safe and lightweight. But it’s even more important to have a good protective car seat bag so you can drop it off at check-in and forget about it for the rest of your journey.

The Ergobaby Metro+ Compact Baby Stroller is a fantastic, lightweight travel stroller. It folds in one hand and fits in the overhead bin on the plane. It is also one of the few travel strollers that can accommodate newborns and toddlers. My husband and I use this stroller daily—it’s just that good!

If you’re flying with a baby, we highly recommend the Doona. It works as both a stroller and a car seat, making travel so much easier whether you’re flying or driving. The Doona Infant Car Seat/Stroller is approved for all air travel in the U.S. and is certified by both U.S. and European authorities. You can either check it at the gate or buy an extra ticket and strap it in during the flight. A little tip: ask the flight attendant at the gate if it’s a full flight and see if they’ll let you bring it on for free. It’s worked for us a few times and was such a travel win!

Diaper Bag

Last but definitely not least, a good diaper bag is a must-have. What’s best for you will depend on your needs and personal style, but this post offers​​ plenty of great options, plus tips on how to pack it. Our number one tip for packing the diaper bag is to fill it with lots of snacks and toys to keep your little ones entertained. Don’t forget a change of clothes in case of any accidents!

Snacks, Toys, and Activities

Okay, you’re on the plane, and the kids are settled in their seats or on your lap. Now, how do you make it through the flight? The key is to make the experience entertaining! One great tip is to bring a fun new toy to keep them engaged. Some of our personal favorites are the Suction Cup Fidget Spinnerz, Pop Tubes, Writing Tablet, Busy Board Book, and my daughter’s favorite, Fidget Poppers.

Each little one may have different snacks based on their diet, age, and preferences, but a handy container can make snack time more convenient (and fun!). This one from GoBe is ideal because it helps prevent spills and has multiple compartments, allowing you to offer your little ones many options. If you are traveling with a baby who needs a bottle, this warmer from Papablic is terrific. All it needs is hot water, which you can get at any point in the airport or on the plane. It’s simple and dependable, making it a frequent flyer favorite.

Timing is Key, but Plan for Accidents

One last big tip for traveling with kids: timing is everything, but planning for the unexpected is essential. If possible, book flights around your little one’s sleep schedule—especially if you know they won’t sleep on the plane (and vice versa if they will!). For babies, timing feedings around takeoff and landing can help with ear popping. For older kids, gum or any chewy candy works great. Be prepared for accidents and blowouts, and make sure you have a changing pouch like this one from Bumco to make quick bathroom trips a lot easier. If the flight is long enough, it’s a good idea to pack two backup outfits for each kid. To cut down on diaper changes, use nighttime diapers—they absorb so much more. Our favorite brand is Huggies!

With some preparation and the right mindset, flying with kids can be much more manageable—and even fun! Remember, it’s all about staying flexible, keeping things simple, and embracing the adventure. So go ahead, pack those snacks, grab those toys, and get ready to make some unforgettable memories with your little ones in the sky. For specific product ideas and recommendations, see our article, Products and Tips for Surviving Any Plane Trip With Kids. Safe travels and happy flying!