As a mother, your child’s wedding day is a milestone you’ve been thinking about since long before your son or daughter had their first crush. It’s a special time that marks a new chapter for your child, their partner, and your family as a whole. When you think about it that way, deciding what to wear as a mother of the bride (or groom) can feel like a lot of pressure! In fact, some mothers of the bride and groom tell us finding a dress for their child’s wedding was even more of a challenge than finding their own wedding dresses!

We’re here to help. Here are some ways you can honor your personal style while sticking to the wedding’s color palette and dress code:

• Discuss any color or style preferences with your son or daughter and their partner well ahead of the wedding — this will give you time to gather inspiration and start the shopping process early.
• Dress for comfort, and don’t forget the magic of the right undergarments or shapewear. Ask the salesperson helping you for recommendations, including any on-site tailoring available!
• Budget accordingly: while we all love a bargain, this is a time to splurge on yourself (without feeling guilty!) A high quality, well-fitting dress is often an investment, so don’t hesitate to treat yourself.
• Before buying, photograph yourself in the dresses you’re considering and make sure you like how you look in pictures just as much as in the mirror. You’ll be seeing it in the wedding album for years to come, so this is important!

After all that, the only thing to remember is to have fun and embrace your personal style. Below, you’ll find some of our favorite options for all types of moms, from those who love a dramatic entrance to the moms shutting down the dance floor.

For the Mom who loves some sparkle:

Your child’s wedding day is their time in the spotlight, but that doesn’t mean you can’t get away with a little sparkle in your look! These dresses are all about sequins and sophistication — and there’s something for every style.

This v-neck column dress features a modest cut that will flatter any figure–this gown is offered in sizes 2-20. With gorgeous radiating embellishments, butterfly sleeves, and floor-length hemline, it’s a show-stopper that will set you apart in the wedding party. Macy’s, $598

Glamor meets sophistication in this metallic sheath gown. It’s got subtle sparkle, it’s got drama with the cape sleeves, and best of all: reviewers say it’s comfortable! Available in navy, gold, and blue (pictured above). Dillards, $258

This high neck flutter sleeve A-line gown perfectly blends a classic silhouette with modern sequin embroidery. The mesh overlay is fully lined so you can feel your best on your son or daughter’s wedding day. Bloomingdales, $798

For the Mom who loves prints:

If sparkle isn’t your thing, a gorgeous pattern is the perfect choice for a mother of the bride or groom. Whether you choose a flirty floral or a bold abstract, prints are a great way to add some glamor to your look–and they can be figure flattering, too!

This fit and flare mother of the bride or groom dress is the epitome of ladylike sophistication. The wide floral skirt will literally cause crowds to part, allowing you to make a worthy entrance. And it has pockets. Bloomingdale’s, $770

This asymmetric gown is all about the drama — from the abstract aquamarine patterning to the ruffled slit skirt, to the one-shoulder bodice. Pair it with a strappy heel, style your hair in a sleek updo, and you’re wedding-ready! Bloomingdales, $850

Not one to shy away from color? Go for something like this gorgeous floral maxi dress with a stunning jacquard print. The simple silhouette keeps the bold pattern front and center, allowing you to stand out without grabbing too much attention. Dillards, $448

For the Mom who’s always dancing:

You’re the mom who can’t help but jump up and hit the dance floor when her song comes on. The one who’s busting out all her greatest moves and shutting down the reception long after the kids have called it quits. These dresses and jumpsuits are the only dance partner you’ll need.

You don’t have to sacrifice style or elegance when you opt for a mother of the bride (or groom) jumpsuit — this organza bow-trim halter jumpsuit is proof! It’s a great alternative to a gown when your M.O. is breaking it down on the dance floor. This jumpsuit is also available in extended sizing. Macy’s, $188-$198

A shorter dress gives you the freedom to move however the music inspires you. I love how the sparkling embellishments balance out the knee-length hemline on this gorgeous A-line dress that’s fit for any mother of the bride (or groom). Bloomingdales, $798

Elegant simplicity has never been more dance floor-ready. This classically feminine knee-length dress features a skirt perfect for twirling and an asymmetric neckline designed for shimmying the night away. This draped beauty comes in gunmetal, mocha, and navy in addition to jade (pictured above). Nordstrom, $385

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Looking for more tips on navigating your child’s wedding? The GiveIt blog has plenty of helpful advice, from who should host the bridal shower (Mother of the bride? Mother of the groom?), to ways you can be the best source of support for your son or daughter on their big day. The most important thing is to enjoy every moment and make sure to celebrate it all!